The way to end cockblocking came to me in a dream. I woke up and grabbed a pen immediately so I wouldn't forget something that could change millions of men's lives. If a girl cockblocks you, respond by shaking her core so hard she hesitates doing it again—like a mouse hitting the wrong lever and getting zapped. No jokes, no wit. Get direct. You need to say something stern, like a parent scolding a child. This will ruin her night completely because girls are emotional and take forever to recover

Here's what you say with a stern tone: "Did you really just do that? I'm being friendly and respectful to your friend and you rudely interrupt. Did your parents teach you to be anti-social like that?" Then shake your head and turn your back. Don't engage or acknowledge her response. She no longer exists. Girls hate when you don't let them respond or get the last word. She'll think about what happened for a long time. I was mid-sentence when one rolled up between us.

If every guy calls out a cockblocker once a month, it will cease to exist in a year or two. Girls only cockblock because there's no punishment. Since you can't slap her, use words. Don't use profanity or call her names—be mostly respectful so she can't write you off as an asshole. You're a good guy shocked by her rudeness. Use keywords: "respectful," "rude," "interrupt," "anti-social." I don't care if I get kicked out. I'm going to ruin her night and make her think twice about doing it again.

We've let girls cockblock for so long that they know there's zero cost. We stand there with dumbfounded looks while she gets satisfaction. It's time to let them earn that cockblock. Girls will continue only as long as there's no consequence. Use words to teach her a lesson. Make it clear that interrupting a conversation is rude and unacceptable. Once she experiences real social discomfort from her actions, she'll stop. The power is in your hands—use it.